It's impossible for me not to associate December with Christmas. After all, tree-putting-up and ornament-ing and gift-buying aside, my family celebrates Advent. The Advent calendar (chocolates!) and wreath/candles appear in my house like clockwork every year on the first Sunday of December (officially, the first Sunday of Advent; I suppose depending on the year it could be in late November? Don't make me do the math). So, all month, we are in Christmas mode, especially me.
At the risk of sounding like I'm trying to trick you into thinking I'm a selfless angel...I love giving gifts more than receiving them. I'll tell you why that's not "selfless": because seeing the look on the receiver's face when they open your awesome present, that triumphant, loving feeling that you get, is one of the best feelings you can have. Giving a great gift is self-validation: I am thoughtful! I succeeded! They love it!
So I am already hard at work making gifts for my loved ones. Yes, making, not buying, because as a college student, I have two options: cheap and storebought, or cheap and handmade. The latter is INFINITELY better than the first. Also, I try really hard to gift things that are useful and needed, often topping off the useful present with a not-so-useful one. Exhibit A: I'm making my parents personalized wine charms(DIY post to come), because whenever they have people over, everyone gets their wine glasses confused. That's the useful part. Then on top of that, I'm getting them a Michael Buble CD (yet another post coming for why). Part useful, part superfluous (with a positive connotation), all awesome. Forgive me for tooting my own horn to no end.
Other things I love about the holidays:
- Ghirardelli peppermint hot chocolate
- Union Square in San Francisco
- Holiday jazz
- The culturally rich variety of holidays this time of year
- Big, cozy sweaters
- Fireplaces
- Still believing in Santa Claus (I always will!)
- Eggnog
- Christmas movies
- The Nutcracker
- Snow, or at least knowing it's snowing somewhere (no snow here in Cali)
- My sparkly pink Santa hat (thank you Victoria's Secret...0:))
- Winter wonderlands set up on neighborhood lawns
- Of course...winter break from school
- And best of all: the Christmas tree in the living room. Waking up in the middle of the night, expecting darkness, and instead being greeted by twinkling lights; constructing toy train tracks around the base of the tree; filling its branches with ornaments, each one with a memory of its own.
Trust me, this is only the introduction to a LOT of Christmas posts to come. Happy holidays! ♥
I used to fight the holidays, but now I embrace them whole-heartedly! The evidence is on my blog in my latest post. I hope you have the happiest of holidays!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much! I have to say your "accidental traditions" are fascinating to me. My whole life, the way we do things around the holidays have been set in stone; we listen to the same songs, see the same Nutcracker play put on by the same company, eat at the same house (my grandparent's), put the tree in the same place, go to the same mass, wake up at the same time on Christmas morning (sorry for the rant there :)). While I've grown up in these traditions, they're not necessarily mine--they belong to my family. The fact that you have traditions that are uniquely yours is so special. I hope they were wonderful!
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